In every course that I have attended for the renewal of the catechetical scene in our country, the priest in charge would always bring up the Sacrament of Reconciliation. He would say that if one were to go for Confession only once or twice a year, one would make a very poor witness to our children. How can one transmit the faith if one is not first convinced that there is a need to first take care of our own spirituality?
In far too many places and among too many people, the regular reception of the Sacrament of Reconciliation has fallen by the wayside. This must be remedied if we are to grow in humility and holiness, and truly benefit from the gift of Jesus in the Eucharist. In the latest issue of a popular Catholic magazine, ‘The Word among us’ there is an article entitled ‘Finding Freedom through the Sacrament of Reconciliation’.
I fully agree with the point made and I thank God for the gift of this Sacrament. How many times have I received the mercy of God in all these years? Countless.
I thank God for some lessons learnt in this area too. I remember years ago when I was at a retreat. There were numerous priests from foreign countries, and as I prepared to go for Confession, I was deliberating in my mind which particular priest I should go to. I thought of an African priest and then I told myself that perhaps I ought to go to an Indian religious. This went on for quite a while. Finally I went to a foreign priest and the first words he said to me were something to this effect: ‘When you come for confession, it is God who hears your confession. There is no need to spend so much time choosing the priest.’ Wow, this took me by surprise. I was still a young Catholic then, baptized for about a couple years only, but I have never forgotten this. Indeed, our Lord is the one who forgives our sins. The priest is the humble instrument.
Another time, at another retreat, I was convicted of my sins and I went to make my confession. I remember how powerful this session was. The tremendous love of God flowed right through me and the old priest who had heard my confession was so tender and so loving. Truly that was an experience of God’s healing love.
Still, I remember the time when we were afflicted with the bird flu. Due to this epidemic, there was a time when we could not even go to the confessional for our confessions. I remember telling one priest that I felt as if I had lost my sense of sin. “Father, when are we going to be able to go for confession?”
It is well known that St Angela recommends that regular confessions be made. Thank God for all the priests who avail themselves to us. Thank God for priests like St John Vianney and St Pio and so many others in our churches now. It is an act of love then to pray for the priests who hear our confessions. They are God-sent! Praise God!
Without this Sacrament, we lose a sense of sin in our lives, and overlook the obstacles it places in our path. Unless we confess our sins, they fester in our hearts, corrupting our good works and spiritual practices. Indeed, many, without knowledge and unheedingly, now receive Holy Communion in a state of mortal sin, making their Communion unfruitful at best and damning at worst.
But confession must be made easily available and then the lay faithful will want to avail themselves to this marvelous gift of God’s grace of forgiveness and healing. It takes only one simple act to start making this a reality and that is, to have our priests preach often on our need for repentance and sacramental confession. May God bless us all!